Key takeaways
They inch closer or lean in to talk to you in a soft, warm voice
They make deliberate, prolonged eye contact or tilt their head in your direction
Imitating the other person’s gestures or body position signals attraction
Fidgeting is another subtle sign
They can’t stop smiling around you
They check their hair or clothing anxiously
You know you’re ready for a fling if you’re traveling to an exciting destination, feel anxious yet enthusiastic about meeting new people, and are open to a fun experience. It helps if you haven’t been in a relationship in a while.
You meet someone while traveling or upon reaching your destination, and they smile at you, laugh at your jokes, reciprocate gestures, lean in to your touch, and otherwise show signs of receptiveness. Here are a few others to watch for.
They inch closer
Maybe you’re sitting side by side, and they angle toward you so their shoulder almost touches yours, or you’re standing in a group and they start stepping forward. It’s often an unconscious shift. They are crossing an invisible line, which signals both attraction and comfort.
Deliberate eye contact
Your eyes lock for a fraction of a second, and you both feel time stand still. You feel a rush of warmth on your face, or your stomach does a little flip.
The head tilt
They are showing interest in you or what you’re saying when they incline their head toward you.
Mirroring
When we imitate someone’s gestures, we’re subconsciously trying to build rapport with them. It’s the person’s way of admitting they like you and want to be on the same wavelength as you. These and other conclusions are all part of the irresistible mystery of decoding body language.
The 2025 stats on flings reveal thought-provoking gender differences
Most men are open to a fling, but some women are swiping left on the idea of a noncommittal romance, according to a 2025 survey from dating app Hily, reported by Newsweek. The platform surveyed polled 8,000 millennials and Gen Z and found that three-quarters of young men were hoping for a fling, but this was the case for just over a third (37%) of women.
It seems that both men and women are increasingly frustrated with the dating culture and traditional dating apps in 2025. Women complain about disrespectful messages, low-quality matches, and too many options, while men struggle with low match rates. Singles are having a hard time finding someone who is looking for the same thing as them, and misaligned expectations are contributing to the problem.
The main reason women seek travel flings is the curiosity about where the relationship might go, which suggests that they are likelier to view a fling as a potential route to a committed relationship, while men may still be subscribing to the casual-first mindset. The survey showed that more than half (56%) of women were heartbroken when the fling ended.
Still, there is some chance of a travel fling leading to a serious relationship: 48% of men and 42% of women said summer dating transitioned into a long-term relationship.
Final thoughts
In the end, picking up on signs of attraction before a travel fling is about paying attention to the subtle cues: eye contact, body language, tone of voice, and the effort someone puts into being around you. While no signal is foolproof, a mix of openness, warmth, and genuine interest usually speaks louder than words. Trusting your instincts, staying respectful, and keeping communication clear ensures that any connection you pursue feels fun, mutual, and safe. Travel romances might be fleeting, but the memories you make can last long after the trip is over.
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